Putting my thoughts down on paper for Lenora’s funeral on Saturday:
The Potters owned the third pew and we resided on the fourth pew. It was there that I first met Lenora. It was there that I received my first warm loving embrace and it was there that I felt a familiar connection to her sweet feistiness that I yearned for each week. I loved to watch the Potters walk up the aisle, ‘dressed to the nines’, arm in arm, slowly taking each step so Lenora could take in a breath. A small feat for me to turn my head and watch yet a milestone for their efforts in coming to receive the Sacrament. Through this past year the third pew often remained empty but not my heart, it was still full. I still envisioned her perfectly coiffed white hair directly in front of me and I still felt her presence. Oh but I missed the embraces.
I used to think that standing at her door every July with my freshly cut bouquet of pink peonies from my garden was my most memorable Lenora moment. Her cute little cheeks puffed up into a full happy smile as she took in the sweet aroma of the flowers every year, every time.
However, I would now say that my fondest moment with her was my last visit in her hospital room last month. It was peaceful and serene, just her and I as she shared thoughts about her life and her family. She shared her shortcomings in being a mother and in those brief moments we connected once again no longer from pew to pew but woman to woman. They were tender moments where she shared and I shared. No conclusions, not really regrets just sweet thoughts.
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